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Feelings Guilty...should i be?

My grandparents from korea stayed over for like 3 weeks. for the first week we just relaxed at home and went hiking a little. 1 week we went to vacation to N.Y. and D.C. and for the next week i wuz away for bible school at church. and then the other few days we ate at a restaurant, and my family went to hocking hills to hike but i was too tired to go. So my grandparents left today to go back, but last night my dad told us to all go to the airport, so he would wake us up. But this morning he didnt really wake us up. it always takes me 3 tried to wake up, but the next thing i knew they were gone! My mom said she tried to wake us up but we didnt. they had left to go to the airport without me and my bro cuz they thought we were sleeping! And the last thing i said to my grandparents last night waz "Good night" I wanted to say goodbye because i wouldnt see them for a year...and now they're gone! :( now i feel all guily that i didnt have a chance to say goodbye. Should i feel guilty? cant email them (they dont have an email or a computer)lol. and cant write.(dont know their korean addresss!!!! ) SHOULD I FEEL GUILTY FOR NOT WAKING UP AND SAYING GOODBYE?

Public Comments

1. I'm sure they will understand and forgive you. How about sending them a letter saying how much you enjoyed their stay and you're sorry you didn't get a chance to say goodbye.



2. write them a nice letter



3. I see what you mean. I think that they understand that you wanted to tell them good bye but it did not work out like that in the end... So I think that they are not angry. As far as you are concerned, I think you should send them a mail or phone them or sth like that and perhaps explain. Not because they need it but because you would not feel so bad and guilty.



4. No not at all, u can call him, text him, send an email or a mail card to his adress in Korea ,, and everything will be great. cheer up



5. You can always call them or write them a late rand explain to them that why didn't have a chance to say good-bye.I'm sure they will understand



6. yes!...and buy a better alarm clock!

   call / write your grandparents to say sorry, also let him know how you feel and how much you love them....I'm sure they'll understand.




7. Not in the least, they seemed to have know how you are in getting up in the morning.

   It would be different if you heard them and said to yourself, if I lay here pretending to sleep they will go and not bother me.

   You did none of that .............don't feel a bit guilty............ write them a little note and say good by and that they were so wonderful to have as company.